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Friday, February 19, 2010

♥ For y0uuu =)

刚搬进这个房子的那天,她整理完全部的东西,最后拿出一个非常精致的玻璃瓶,对他说道:“亲爱的,3个月内,你让我每哭一次,我就往里面加一滴水,代表我的眼泪。要是它满了,我就收拾我的东西离开这房子。”

爱没有合不合适,只有珍惜不珍惜男人不以为然,有点纳闷:“你们女人也太神经质了吧!就这么不信任我么,那还有什么可谈?我让你搬过来和我一起生活,是为了照顾你,不是欺负你的!”

女人说:“好男人不会让心爱的女人受一点点伤,我会记录下我为什么流泪,不会是莫名其妙的。”
“那好吧,抱抱~!”

两个月后,女人把那瓶子给男人看,说:“已经满一半了,在两个月内,我们是否有必要查看一下是什么问题呢?”说完递了一本精致的小笔记本给男人。
男人没有马上打开来看,他的表情里有一丝惊讶,还有点哭笑不得的意味,似乎没有想到女人的眼泪可以这么多,盛得这么快,又觉得女人是小题大作了,但是很可爱。

他打开本子开始看,惊讶女人怎么写了那么多。男人一边看着,女人一边说话:“第一次吵架,是在第3天,而且还是一大早,你刚醒来有点懵懂,挤的牙膏不知道怎么的飞到镜子上了,那是我刚擦干净的,我说你连挤牙膏都不会啊,你就来脾气了,然后吵起来……”


男人默着。女人继续说:“有天晚上我让你帮洗下那几件衣服,因为水太凉,你只顾着玩游戏迟迟不肯动,后来吵起来,我很失望你忘记了我的生理期不能碰冷水,委屈……”

“还有一次,我很累了,你还不肯去洗澡睡觉,明明知道我特敏感,有点神 经衰弱,哪怕一点点敲键盘的声音都能让我难以入睡,我一情急就说了你这个人自私的话,我们吵起来,你说了一大堆辩论自己不自私自私的人是我之后甩门出去上 网通宵,我打你电话你没拿我又不敢自己一个人去找你……”
女人这时候有点激动了,眼球开始泛红,说:“还有一次……”男人打断了她的话,“亲爱的,别说了……”
沉默…长久的沉默……

还是女人打破了沉默:“是不是我们真的不合适?如果是这样,结婚了还是会离婚吧?我们的个性都那么强,谁都不肯退让。”
气氛有点尴尬。
本 子里记录的事情都是那么细小的事情,每次吵架的原因都是那么的简单,男人看着这本子,似乎在体会着女人的心情,大男子是不会去计较这些小事,原本觉得每次 和好之后都没事,女人就爱拿这些来说事,但是当他认真去看的时候,他也开始难过了,女人很细心,把事件、心情都写了,还自己总结了一下原因。原来最微小的 事情累积起来是很让人痛苦的,他看得出,女人从失望慢慢变成绝望。



他想,大概是因为每次吵架,两人都是喜欢在吵架中找出对方不爱自己的证据。他突然意识到,这是个很严重的问题!而且每次吵架,双方都是在心情不稳定的时候,就是还有别的烦心事的时候,把不好的情绪带进了两个人的生活里。

“亲爱的别难过……”男人终于说话了:“我请个假,我们去旅游吧。”

他们去了第一次一起旅游的地方,太多美好的回忆被唤起,原来彼此是那么深深地爱着对方,这时的女人特别温柔,这时的男人特别体贴。

“亲爱的,你还认为我们结婚的话,会离婚么?”男人问。

“我想不是我们不合适,像现在,我们是那么快乐,一切都那么美好,可是一回到我们的现实生活里,为什么就变了呢?”

“亲爱的,难道我们现在不在现实里吗?”

“……”女人楞了。

“因为那时候我们都把注意力集中在负面的事物上并且放大了那些负面的心情。并且喜欢找对方不爱自己的证据,然后彼此个性都很倔不肯服输太要面子。”

女人觉得确实是如此,原来,双方只是需要一点点忍让,一点点包容。男人带她回顾这初次旅游的地点,是真的用心了,想起那时候他们在一起还不久,为了让对方觉得自己好,都表现出自己最好的一面。

“还有半个月,如果那瓶子还是半瓶,那么,亲爱的,嫁给我吧!”

女人钻进男人怀里笑开了颜
后 来他们结婚了。很少再吵架。如果粗心的男人不小心碰掉了杯子,女人不会再开口就骂,因为在女人开口之前,男人已经在道歉,说对不起,都是我不小心的,赔两 个给老婆!老婆尽管去选你喜欢的!女人就笑了,然后说,不用买啦,反正还有杯子,再说也不都是你的错,怪我自己没把杯子放好,让你碰到啦!
原来真的没有合适不合适,只有珍惜不珍惜,能一起走一起进步是幸福的!

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

♥ 15/16.02.10 =)

♥ 15.02.10

今天

某人call来说请吃 =)

冲好凉就出了




对我来说 红酒+巧克力

是种享受 =)

16.02.10

懒得写

我只知道 我很生气 !

敷mask =)







我 讨厌 你 !

Sunday, February 14, 2010

♥ Happy new Year and Valentine dae =)

♥ 除夕夜

下外婆家接财神 =)

晚上时舅舅放鞭爆 爽 =D

我们一直吃冰条 =) 因为天气很热

妹特地选紫色给我 ^^ 真知我心










♥ 年初一 + 情人节

这天 舅请我们看戏 =)

终于 看到72家租客了

开心到我 =DDD

和舅 . 舅母 还有表弟妹去买票先

然后去kepong cafe吃东西

回到去 表哥又打包KFC来

哇 全部吃得饱饱的

然后 拿多多红包 X)

晚上 全部玩烟花 爆竹的

哈哈 不怕警察抓的一班




My dearest Darlinq






both of my Lovely muii =)





after beck home =)

third round .

♥ im open the valentine present from bibii to me =)

Thanky0uuus my Beloved Hubby
Thank y0ur present and everythingss u do .
I swear i Love Youus no matter how much youu l♥ve me .

Yen LVE Chung
The [0]nLy O.n.e


Friday, February 12, 2010

♥ 07.02.10-12.02.10 =)

07.02.10

At night .

My darlinq suddenly want goes The new Giant =)

The lift got a small tv =p first time saw inside lift also can watch cartoon XD

Then start buying ..

After finish shopping . we go up to take a look of the new cinema =)

Quick nice ^^ now . darlinq and me want watch movie also easy le .


♥ cute =)
daddy was drive till fast X)
My muii hand =)





inside the lift also can watch tv =)
darlinq very like my 丸子头==so call me let her take a photoo .

non make up =( yong shuii

09.02.10

这天 像平常那样去吖bii家 .

冲凉后 和Bi一起 休息 睡觉 打架 弄来弄去 聊天 =)

两只猪醒了过后就去吃午餐了

过后等达玲来载 Bi要去0UG办点东西 达玲载他去 .

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晚上 爱人赶不回来

所以和我亲爱的蜜糖和她妹妹去夜市

我们一去到 就买LENS盒 赫赫 =P 买了5个 =)

本来去到才和bii说的.因为他也有去而且要和朋友谈点东西

怎知才开始走 就看到他了

幸好bii没有气我去夜市没告诉他 =)

Bii and h0ney keep zat each 0ther and kidding much . make me keep laugh XD

After tat . Bii’s fred was calling him and he nid to go keng somethings with him

So I need to say bye to him a while XD

Buy zhan ju nai cha with honey and her mui .

We take a look of there’s shirt and dress .

After that . go eat . chat many things with h0ney =)

we chat until agitate . My Bii come find us . He stand behind me l0nq time I also din discover =p

After we eat . we ready to beck h0me coz wanna rain ald .

When the way we bek home . got a accident beside the r0ad .

Many ppl take photo ==

Wohoooo~ todae was a happy day ***


honey send us d new year wish card =)

10.02.10

After skol went to bibi house . we had a little argue on the way we beck h0me .

After bibi bath . I keep lau gai . bibi was try his best to tam bek me =)

bibi had a shirt not gam size with him . so give me wear it =)

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After we awake .

Bibii bring me go eat my favourate japan food =)

Unagi =) ii like to eat

As our valentine dinner =DDDD

After that . go MC Donald buy lunch for my sis and darlinq .

Muackk . l0u gong i love all the thingss abt y0uuu !

Wo aiii nii ! 1 bei . zii ; y0ng bu saN !!~





11.02.10

Today give valentine present to 3 preciouss I really HEART =)

Babee Lover Honey

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After school . goes Ts and sgwang with babee and bibi

Altough we are tired . but still want to go =)

Bibii beck home first and me and babee wait him at lrt station .

Chat with babee when at Lrt . many and many diffrent topic =)

After tat my bii was come . wow ! he wear so leng zai nia ==

Babeee asking he why wera so lenq zai ? for wd ?

I say he want go bao yi lai =p coz both of us wear skool uniform .

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Today whole day let babeee and bii zat me ==

Until I no voice . yaya . y0uu two hakka win =)

We keep eat today . reach ts we go gasoline take our lunch .

Bibi was bought a zaizai to me =) damnnn cute .zaizai with a 安全帽

After ts . we go sgwang eat sushi and KFC ==

Really eat until bao bao .



12.02.10

Todae din go skol =)

Wake up in the morning take breakfast with my sis and darlinq .

After that . start to tidy and cleaning my house .

Whole noon din eat == kesian

Buzy of cleaning house and my lovely bed .

Whole body full of sweat . Yuckks . I want to bath !

Babe come find me at noon. To return bek money .

Hehehe XD

I hanging bibi bought to me d zaizai at my room’s door .

Feel happy when I saw it =DDD

Cleaning until night =( Tired X100

After dinner .

Help my darlinq and sis弄指甲.

帮她们弄到很满意 =) 可是自己的不是很满意

我弄的主题是花与蝴蝶 . 之前都是弄暗色系的

2010.新年新气象 =) 要换换了

Darlinq say mine not nice but my sis feel nice and she like it a lotss =)

Hehees XD thanksss . but ii more like their nails although also create by me.

At night . keep hear the b0m bom sound of fireworks =)

明晚 会玩到很夜吧 ? =)

My bii had send me a big valentine present =)

But he not allow me open it first =(

Coz hvn sampai sat 12.00am . valentine day still hvn arrive .

So . FAST ! coz I want to knoe wd he send to me .

Erm .. bibi . that present will let me feel surprise d mah =P ??


Bibi 's shirt =) YELLOW
Tiger in BLUEThe ribbon so got sham si XD

♥ I need the times to 0pen itss =(


sooo , pls fast !

14.02.10 ~

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